When it comes to bringing toys into the bedroom, there are often some misconceptions associated with this addition. While there are some people who think toys are more about playing on your own, there are also some who are adamantly against toys because they see them as being a replacement for a real person. Ultimately, the way you incorporate any type of toy into the bedroom is up to you and will determine how it will be perceived by your partner.
Sex toys are all about having fun and spicing things up, which means that adding one to the bedroom can go a long way towards adding something new to your sex life. If you really want to have some fun with your partner, then it may be best to find a toy that will work for both of you. Think of this as a chance to bring about a conversation about not only what you want and need in the bedroom, but also about the fantasies you may each be interested in exploring.
No matter how your toy experience turns out, there is something to be said for trying something new. Here are some of the suggestions we have for toys that couples might enjoy together in their search for a new bedroom experience.
Sex Position Pillow
Although everyone has their favorite positions when it comes to having sex, there are also pillows that can help you comfortably enjoy trying something new. Incorporating a position pillow, also known as a sex wedge, can be a way to really bring about some inspiration. The pillow will allow for more comfort, even in a position that you may already enjoy. These pillows also allow for the potential for deeper penetration and a chance to extend the acrobatics and aerobics in your sex life.
When it comes to choosing a position pillow, there are plenty of options available. Not only are there standard wedge pillows, but there are also inflatable options as well. Whatever you choose, one of these pillows can truly spice things up for both of you.
A Sex Stool
To go along with the idea of the positioning pillow, there is also the sex stool. Much like the pillows, these are a great way to change up things in terms of the positions you engage in sexually. These stools can be used for being on top without putting all your weight on your partner or on your own thighs. No matter how you choose to use your sex stool, you and your partner will be able to explore new positions and even engage in longer sexual encounters in general.
Vibrating Cock Ring
While one might think of a cock ring as being more for the man, this does not mean that both of you will not enjoy the addition of one of these toys. Not only does it help that the cock ring vibrates, but it actually helps to pull double duty in terms of what it does.
The vibrating cock ring will not only help to bring about a firmer erection, but it will also stimulate her as well. This is a toy that will benefit both partners in quite obvious ways and will ultimately be a win for everyone.
Personal massagers are a great way to add extra stimulation to your play. No matter which toy you choose in this category, these massagers can be used on both men and women. Whether you go for the clitoris, the testicles, or the nipples, these massagers will stimulate your most sensitive areas and make for a good time for both of you.
If you decide to avoid your more erogenous zones, the personal massager can also be used to tease and add to the many sensations leading up to the actual sex. Run the massager along the inner thigh, the stomach area, or even the arms for a chance to tease and stimulate your partner, even as you mix things up in fresh and new ways.
Handcuffs, Rope, or Even a Tie
If you want to get spicy with your sex toys, you may want to incorporate a bit of bondage to your play. Whether you choose to use handcuffs, rope, or even a silk tie from the closet, there are many options that can work when it comes to adding bondage play to the bedroom. Whether you are the one being bound or your partner, this is all about trust and knowing that your partner has faith in you and you have faith in them.
No matter what toys you choose to incorporate into your play, remember to talk with each other because this is about both of you enjoying yourselves and having a good time.
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