Dating Tips: Starting the Day With a Text and a SmileBy Kimberley Spinney - 4 min read
Waking up to a message from the person you are dating can be the perfect way to start the day.
Waking up to a message from the person you are dating can be the perfect way to start the day. This random message will not only let the person know that you are thinking about them, but it also elevates the mood so that both of you will feel good going into your day.
Whether you choose to send a text or even write a little note for them to find, sending a message to the person you are dating can set the tone for the rest of the day and leave a smile on their face that will be hard to remove.
Mornings can be awful for some people, especially when it comes to people who hate mornings. Even saying the wrong thing can lead to a bad day, but sending the right message can be the perfect way to let someone know you care and that they are always on your mind.
Don’t be shy about your feelings; let that person know you’re thinking about them. Whether this means just sending a quick good morning or even coming up with something a bit longer, there are plenty of ways you can brighten someone’s day.
Tips and ideas for the perfect morning text or note
Send something quick and sweet
Sending a short and sweet message can be enough to put a smile on anyone’s face. Even something as simple as, “good morning handsome/beautiful/sweetheart” is enough to brighten any morning.
Other possible options include, “hope you have a great day,” or “You are beautiful/hot/sexy/amazing/sweet,” or really any other combination of descriptive words will work as a simple reminder to the person you are dating that you find them to be one of a kind in your eyes.
Send something that really lets them know you’re thinking of them
Whether you decide to send a note that says something fun and flirty or that is planning for later in the day, there are plenty of options when it comes to sending a message that lets your significant other know they are on your mind. You could send a message saying that you can’t wait to see them later or even go flirty and say something about the beauty of the day being unable to compare to theirs. However you decide to send your message, make sure you say it from the heart.
Flirt with your partner through text
Sending a flirty text can do two things, it can make your partner smile and it can make them eager to see you later. Not only does it let them know you are thinking about them, but it can also act as a way to set up for a night of fun and passion. Sexy text messages and notes can act as source material to get something started later on.
Even getting down and dirty in text message allows you a chance to not only let your partner know you are thinking about them, but it will even give you a chance to add spice back to the relationship if needed. Examples of possible messages to send include, asking if they are on the menu tonight, letting them know they were in your dreams and exactly how they can make some of those dreams come true, or even tell them what you want to do to them when you see them next (go sexy and creative with this).
Take something off of their To-Do list
Letting your partner know that you plan to take something off of their list of things to do can be enough of a mood lifter that it does not need to be sexy or flirty. This is your chance to not only help them out, but it also lets them know that you want to help.
Tell your partner that you are taking care of dinner (this gives you a chance to not only relieve them of what might be seen as a chore, but it can also let you plan something romantic or sexy) or maybe let them know you will go to the store for that thing they have been saying they need. If you have children, you could always do school pick up and let them know they have a bit more time for whatever it is they want to do.
Let them know how lucky you are to have them
Sending a message just letting your partner know how lucky you feel to have them in your life is a mood booster that will have them smiling all day long. Telling someone how you feel can be exactly what you both need. This is your chance to tell them things like, “I’m the luckiest person in the world to have you in my life,” or saying how they brighten your days with their smile. However you choose to tell your partner that you feel lucky to have them, this is a chance, to be honest, and make them aware of just how important they are to you.
Relationships can be tricky and it is often hard to keep things fresh because there is a lot of care and attention that is needed. It doesn’t matter what kind of relationship it is there is a lot of nurturing that goes into keeping things healthy for both of you and that means finding ways to remind each other that you care and that even on the worst days you are there for each other. Little messages can be just the thing to remind your significant other that even when it doesn’t feel like it, you really do have them on your mind.
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